在现实社会中我们的行动比语言更加有影响力，孩子眼中的态度、观点、目标很大程度上取决于父母，在本文中我们将看到一些不好的教育习惯，这些教育方式恰恰是我们没有意识到它的重要性。
1.if you child intentionally disturbs you,it isbecause you are not physically affectionate enough.
如果你的孩子总是故意打扰你，可能是因为你和他的身体 亲密度不够，他渴望与你接触。
2.if your child is lying,it means you overreacted to the mistakes in past.
如果你的孩子在撒谎，那么因为你曾经对它们所犯的错误反应过度。
3.if your child had poor self-esteem,it is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
如果你的孩子自信心不足，那是因为你给他们的建议多过鼓励。
4.if your child does not stand up for themselves,it is because from a young age you have discipliend them regularly in public.parents shouldn`t do so even in front of siblings,friends or cousins.
如果你的孩子不会坚持自我，那可能是因为在他们小的时候你总是在公共场合教育训斥他们，即使是在亲人朋友面前，家长也不应该这么做。
5.if you buy everyhting for your children still they take things that do not belong to them,it is because you don`t let them.
如果你什么都给你的孩子买，然而他们还是去拿那些不属于他们的东西，那是因为你不让他们自己选择想要的。
6. if your child is a coward,it is because you help them too quickly.don`t remove every obstacle from their path.
如果你的孩子很懦弱，那可能是因为你帮助他们的速度太快了，不要为你的孩子清扫成长路上的每一个障碍。
7.if your child is jealous,the reason might be you compared them with others consistently.
如果你的孩子嫉妒心强，那可能是因为你总是拿他们和别的孩子做比较。
8.if your chlild gets angry quickly,the reason might be you have not praised them enough.they only get attention misbehaving.
如果你的孩子非常容易生气，可能是因为你给予他们的赞扬不够，他们只有行为不正确时才能得到注意。
9.if your child doesn`t respect others feelings,the reason might be you balways order them -not giving importance to their.
如果你的孩子不懂得尊重别人的感受，那可能是因为你总是命令他们，不重视他们的感受。
10.if your child is secretive,the reason is you blow things very big.
如果孩子总是神神秘秘，什么事情都不告诉你，那可能是因为你总爱打击他。
11.if the child behaves rudely,it is learnt from parents or others living with them.
如果孩子的行为很没礼貌，那他们可能是从家长或者身边其他人那里学来的。
12.Authoritarian:highly demanding parents with high level of responsiveness,support and warmth.
Authoritative:highly demanding parents with low responsiveness,support and warmth.
Uninvolved:low level demanding parents with low responsiveness,support and warmth.
Permissive:low level demanding parents with high responsiveness,support and warmth.
总结:父母不只是一份工作，这是一辈子的承诺，此外，在我们日常生活金和繁忙的工作中，很容易陷入习惯习的行为，不幸的是其中的一些习惯是适得其反的，父母们需要记住这些不良习惯，以及纠正的技巧。[文章来源]